I have several memento
boxes. A few are my own, filled with cards my husband and I sent each
other, cards from my son, letters from my dad when I was in college, letters
from a serviceman in Vietnam. But I also kept memento boxes from my
parents who have passed on. It seems at holidays when I miss them most,
those boxes are gifts my parents give me all over again. In one box I
keep the journal my mom wrote on her honeymoon along with souvenirs she kept
from the trip. In another I have a partial log my dad kept when he was in
the service.
This week I pulled a
box from under the bed and went through some of it again. I found photos
I'd never seen before of my dad. I'd known he was in the service in
Germany and Italy. But in these photos, he was standing in front of Big
Ben. I never realized he'd spent time in England.
When we're kids we
think we'll have our parents forever. Maybe we don't listen as attentively as
we should to their history...their life story before we were born. I know
I didn't. Now I wish I had. But I do have the memento boxes. Every time I open one I seem to find something new, even though I've been
through the box many times before. It's like opening a treasure trove
from the past that helps me know my parents even more richly than I did as a
child.
Memories are precious.
Keepsake boxes are a link to a time we might want our own children to
know about, learn about, and understand. If you don't have a keepsake
box, you might want to start one. It can be a gift to someone you love that
will keep on giving.
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A novel about family.
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USA TODAY Bestselling Author Karen Rose Smith is an only child who delved into books at an early age. She learned about kindred spirits from Anne of Green Gables, solved mysteries with Nancy Drew and wished she could have been the rider on The Black Stallion. Yet even though she escaped often into story worlds, she had many aunts, uncles and cousins around her on weekends. Her sense of family and relationships began there. Maybe that's why families are a strong theme in her novels, whether mysteries or romances. Her 95th novel will be released in 2016.
Readers often ask her about her pastimes. She has herb, flowers and vegetable gardens that help her relax. In the winter, she cooks rather than gardens. And year round she spends most of her time with her husband, as well as her four rescued cats who are her constant companions. They chase rainbows from sun catchers, reminding her life isn't all about work, awards and bestseller lists. Everyone needs that rainbow to chase.
Karen looks forward to interacting with readers. They can find her at the links below.
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Those boxes are great. When my grandmother grew older (she lived to be almost 100, amazingly enough), my mom sat down with her and taped a bunch of her memories. Of course, they're on cassettes, which is now not very helpful, but I'd like to find a way to have them transferred to CDs, if such a thing is possible.
ReplyDeleteI would love to be making memory boxes, but I have no one to pass them to. I suppose that's why I blog -- in case some of my memories will help someone somewhere. I have piles of photos my parents left, but it wasn't until they were gone I knew what questions I wanted to ask. I hope all those who preserve memories will label photos and explain where they fit into the family narrative.
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